Difference between revisions of "Competence and Control"

Revision as of 11:49, 18 August 2016

We put our lives on hold to train, compete and win (Olympics, ironman) for the reward of feeling competent and successful. Entrepreneurs and scientists are relentless in the pursuit of solving a problem or making a discovery that is more about success than a financial reward. We purchase luxury cars and expensive homes as a symbol to ourselves and others that we are a success. Yes, we regretfully play video games till 2am to beat our high score or speed up to not let people pass us in the next lane.

For when we are very young, we are constantly saying "I can do that" or "Let me try". We want to not only prove our competence, we want to beign to have control. We often get frustrated when we have to rely on people that don't always come through. While we need desire {{Love and Connections]] and know we must sometime require Support, we value our independence. It may be demonstrated through dignity (a senior citizen wants to live in their own home) or pride (being proud of what you accomplished).

Competence and Success is a component of personal well-being.